I personally love the look and feel of soapstone and the natural patina it achieves from oiling and wear. Soapstone is very soft and is susceptible to scratches and chips which I think adds to the charm. If you have a country or distressed kitchen and don't mind an imperfect top than I think it is a great choice.

It is not porous like granite and will not stain. Some people mistakingly think the oil absorbs into the stone but it only sits on top and speeds up the natural darkening process. It does not need to be oiled but it helps to darken and acheive a more even tone to the stone. You will need to do it periodically to darken any scrathces or chips. If you prefer a maintenace free countertop then quartz surfaces, of which there are many manufacturers, (Silestone, Ceasarsatone, Cambria, etc. )is the top for you.

It does not need to be sealed and it is very durable but the appearance is very consistent. Granite is also very durable and many stones have beautiful variation and movement but some care needs to be taken with oils, citrus, alcohol and some other liquids that can potentially stain and periodic sealing is neccesary.